Sunday, October 31, 2010

Beauty Through the Eyes of the Body





Beauty Through the Eye’s of the Body

A persons body can say many things about them.  If you look at it from a physical point of view, you could definitely tell about a person from their appearance. If a person is skinny and fit, you take for granted that they are athletic and therefore care about their appearance. There is also the old saying “tall, dark, and handsome” which is also an acceptable appearance. However, if a person is anything less than “perfect“, then it is assumed that the person is lazy and doesn’t care about their appearance. This could be a wrong assumption as there could be an underlying physical reason for the imperfection of one’s body.

Different people like different types of bodies. What is sexy to one person is not necessarily sexy to another. Some people are absolutely attracted to people who are slim and “in style.” Nevertheless, others are attracted to another for their personalities only. Which brings up a good question. Does a personality make a person better looking therefore making their bodies more appealing? In my opinion yes. For instance, I’ve known woman, (sorry ladies) who were absolutely gorgeous, but so ugly on the inside it therefore made them really ugly. I would imagine it would make their bodies ugly too. Although beautiful, the ugliness of their personalities made their bodies not at all desirable. I’m not just singling out woman, I was merely using them as an example. The same could go for men too. Actually for the human race in general.

A person’s body can be a beautiful thing. When a person is touched by another, it can be a wondrous thing. To explore another’s body and find all that is pleasurable to them is an amazing feeling. To have your own body explored by another is also an utter amazing feeling.  The narrator in the story talked about each body having a “secret code.” I would have to agree. What feels good to one does not necessarily fell good to another. To have ones body “read” by someone else, someone that you are attracted to even perhaps love really means a lot. If it is just pure attraction with out feelings then maybe not so much. However, if a person that you love is reading your body then to me that is a beautiful thing. I say this because, for a person to love you so much ; to want to take the time to get to know the secrets of your lover’s body to me is beautiful.

It is sad when people don’t take the time to get to know one another’s “secret codes.” People will get married with out even knowing their partners body. This is so sad because that partner or both partner’s could spend a life time of sexual frustration. In this event either or both of the unhappy partners could have an a affair looking for someone to ready and pleasure their body. Another scenario is the marriage could end up in divorce.

Again, a person’s body can write their identity in the fact that the body can either make a person beautiful or ugly, happy or sad. When in a relationship the body must be taken into concideration or there could be a life time of misery.